5 Ways Cats Show Affection (That You Might Be Missing)

Cats get a bad rap for being aloof, but if you know what to look for, you’ll find they’re constantly telling you how much they love you. Here are five subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways your cat might be saying “I adore you”:

1. Slow Blinking

That long, lazy blink? It’s a feline kiss. Try blinking slowly back—it’s a great way to build trust.

2. Head Butts and Face Rubs

Cats have scent glands on their cheeks and heads. Rubbing against you is their way of saying, “You’re part of my territory. I like you.”

3. The Tail Hug

If your cat wraps their tail around your arm, leg, or another cat—it’s a sign of affection and comfort.

4. Bringing You Gifts

Sure, a dead mouse isn’t ideal, but in cat language, it means “You’re family. Here’s some food.”

5. Sleeping Near You

Cats are most vulnerable when they sleep. Choosing to snooze on your lap or by your side is a major compliment.

Understanding your cat's love language helps deepen your bond—and makes you appreciate their quirky little heart even more.